A wedding is a special event that happens in the lives of most people only once in a lifetime. This date remains a holiday forever and every year the couple celebrates the time when the union of two hearts became official. It is important to know what each period of life together symbolizes, and in this article you can find information regarding the 41st wedding anniversary - what kind of wedding it is and what is customary to give for this holiday.
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What does the 41st anniversary mark?
It is believed that the most solemn event is the wedding day. But the wisdom of life says that over the years the union of a man and a woman acquires even greater value. And if many people know that they give for a year, three or even ten years of marriage, then forty-one years of marriage is already a rarity.
The 41st wedding anniversary is an Earth wedding. This solemn event is truly worthy of respect. The one who managed to preserve his sincere feelings, carry them through difficulties and troubles for 41 years, proved in practice that love exists. She is as ubiquitous as the earth and as resilient and strong as iron. No wonder they say “earthly love.” Moreover, most likely, it has already managed to bear fruit.
Despite the fact that people have already lived hand in hand for so many years, it is recommended to celebrate the date of official marriage. Such an event will once again remind both close people and the heroes of the occasion themselves of what a feat of love they managed to accomplish.
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How to organize an anniversary
In addition to the festive table, it is important to perform several rituals on this day that will make the union stronger and attract prosperity to the family.
You need to bring fertile soil into the house and, distributing it in small handfuls, add it to the pots of indoor plants.
You can start gardening or landscaping your garden plot, thereby paying tribute to the “earth wedding.”
It is recommended to go on a trip, walking is preferable, the main thing is that the “newlyweds” are together.
But if you adopt the tradition of celebration from the French, you will definitely have to buy an iron horseshoe, as you know, it is a symbol of good luck and happiness. After all, for the French this wedding is called “iron”.
How to congratulate you on your anniversary
Having found out what wedding is being celebrated in 41 years, what to give may not be decided right away, but we have several ideas for the wife, for the husband and for the beloved parents.
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Gift ideas for wife
- Country house.
Over many years of married life, all wishes have already been fulfilled and most ideas have been realized, but in this case, the name of the wedding itself suggests the idea of a gift. If the spouse has material wealth, then the best option would be a country house. In this place you can create a real nest, where it will be pleasant for not only the husband and wife, but also their children and grandchildren and friends to come.
At one time in our country it was quite popular to grow vegetables in a summer cottage. And if the spouse also shows interest in this matter, then a small plot of land will be a pleasant surprise. It is noteworthy that it is not necessary to plant potatoes on it, but you can have a good time, grow flowers and fry kebabs.
- Houseplant in a beautiful pot.
This option is for those who do not like to leave their cozy home and prefer to flower on their own balcony. It doesn’t matter how big the gift is, the main thing is that it has something to do with the earth, because the wedding is “earthly”.
Monstera is a beautiful ornamental plant with large leaves.
What to give to my husband
Any man will be pleased to feel young again and worthy of the attention of his chosen one. Most likely, during everyday duties, caring for children and grandchildren, this does not happen often. Give the gift of a romantic evening, remember your favorite melody that you listened to once upon a time, 41 years ago. And dance around - it will be an extraordinary gift.
- Festive dinner with friends.
After you've thoroughly enjoyed each other's company, invite your loved ones. It is possible that among them there are those who have been with you all these years. You will have something to remember and something to have fun with from the heart.
Gifts from children to parents
- Poetry.
The best gift for spouses who have been able to live for so many years in harmony can only be love from loved ones. You can come up with a song and perform it together, or you can tell the kids to learn a poem about “grandmother next to grandfather.” This is the kind of gift that will be remembered most.
Poem from granddaughter
As one hit song says: “To make life repeat itself, look in the family album.” At the moment, there are enough computer programs with which you can make a real film about dating. And about all the important events that happened thanks to this union. Such a video will be pleasant to watch not only for the heroes of the occasion, but also for everyone present at this event.
A wedding is an event that is worthy of attention; do not forget to congratulate the people close to you, no matter how many years they have been together.
